I was just thinking... (I know that it's dangerous sometimes) 

But.... if *I* were to have a child with someone that I was no longer with, would it make sense for *ME* to be-friend the father on a social network if the main goal was for the father and our child to keep in touch?  I would think it would be the best interest for the father to see what's going on in his *child's* life, not *my* drama, whining, bitching, pissing and moaning or ramblings. 

Just saying...